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A True Story About a New Kind of War,

A War That Could Rip Your Family Apart!


Title:            
Desperate To Survive

A true story that happened in 2004

Author            
Gordon Baker

Format:          
soft cover

Size:               
6"x9"

Pages:            
160

ISBN:            
1595260110

Published:      
Sept. 2005

Publisher:      
Llumina Press www.llumina.com
 
Price:             
$13.95 us. soft cover---currently unavailable
$16.95 cdn. soft cover---currently unavailable

 

The book is now available in PDF format with email digital delivery
for a cost of $7.99 U.S. (no shipping charges)



                  



Back cover story synopsis

Desperate To Survive is a heart wrenching true story of how family wealth can turn one adult child against another. On stealing her mother's will and finding it not in her favor, a sister launches a sadistic attack that will eventually overwhelm her brother, the rightful heir, leaving him in total moral and financial ruin. The story details the day-by-day account of the pain and suffering the brother endures after being evicted from the family home and finding himself homeless in the Sudbury area of Northern Ontario during one of the coldest winters on record. With little food, practically no heat, and only snow for water, he approaches the edge of death itself. In trying to regain a sense of stability, he suffers through embarrassment, humiliation, and the dangerous world of drugs, eventually finding himself 2,300 miles from the home he once knew. Desperate To Survive is a powerful story with a lesson that can teach us how to avoid family disaster when making a will.

About the Author

Gordon Baker was born and raised in Sudbury, Ontario, Canada. After graduating from college he worked for seven years in the electrical industry before turning to self-employment in 1982. A successful entrepreneur for many years before the events of this story transformed his life. Mr. Baker currently lives in Penticton, British Columbia. Daily recurring nightmares drove him to write this story and its almost completed sequel, Desperate To Survive, Part 2, in hopes that they will serve as potent testaments and warnings to what can happen to any of us if we are not prepared.

Chapters                                                        

Introduction                                                         
1)   The early years                                                 
2)   Finding my way                                                      
3)   Tragedy strikes                                                     
4)   Trying to hold things together                                         
5)   Going for the kill                                                       
6)   Cruel and inhuman treatment                                     
7)   Found                                                                            
8)   Trapped in hell
9)   My life hangs in the balance
10)  Questions and answers


Appendix 1
1A  Items that belonged to me that my sister sold or destroyed.
1B  A list of items that were in the house when I was forced to leave.
1C  What I did over the years to repair and upgrade my parents home.
1D  Home improvements I had paid for and money I gave to my father.
1E  Things I did to help my mother since my dad died in 1980.


Appendix 2                                                              
Excerpts from my affidavit of May 2003. 

Appendix 3
Power of Attorney and making a will. 

Appendix 4
Character and location information.

 

Excerpt from the book

As daylight approached, I thought about that night and what had happened. Later that morning, when I got out of my truck, I found my keys on the ground near the door, and about three feet away was the gun loaded with the safety off. What happened in the early hours of that morning is still, to this day, (October 27, 2004) a mystery to me. I don't know what the light in front of me was but it saved my life. However, unknown to me, future events would reveal what that light was. One year later, almost exactly to the minute, on February 5, 2005 an event was going to happen that would shock and stun me. It not only revealed, exactly what was shining in my eyes but it would also solved a fifteen-year-old family mystery.

 

Press Release for Desperate To Survive

Ruthless Sister - Leaves Brother Desperate to Survive!

Sudbury, ON., Canada – Oct. 1, 2005. Author Gordon Baker, announced today the release of his book, Desperate To Survive (ISBN: 1-59526-011-0). Based on a true story, this book gives a dramatic account of the terrible pain and suffering the author's sister inflicted on him, in her attempt to become the sole heir to the family's $300,000 estate.

Every week, in courts across North America, wars are being fought between siblings as they try to gain total control over family estates. Unless it's a high profile case, these family feuds never make the news, yet they are every bit as vicious as war itself. However, one man from Canada, a casualty of a brutal family feud, gives us a rare and sensational glimpse inside his life. We follow the deceit and betrayal of his sister as she destroys much of the estate, trying to win a shallow victory.

Desperate To Survive is a heart wrenching true story of how family wealth can turn one adult child against another. After stealing her mother's will and finding it not in her favor, a sister launches a sadistic attack that will eventually overwhelm her brother, the rightful heir, leaving him in total moral and financial ruin. The story details the day-by day- account of the pain and suffering the brother endures after being evicted from the family home and finding himself homeless, in the Sudbury area of Northern Ontario during one of the coldest winters on record. With little food, practically no heat and only snow for water, he approaches the edge of death itself. In trying to regain a sense of stability, after being found, he suffers through degradation, humiliation, and the dangerous world of drugs, eventually finding himself 2,300 miles from the home he once knew.

The ordeal the author went through has left him changed and scared forever. Everything he owned, his deceased father's possessions and some of his mothers' that were to be inherited, were destroyed by his sister. Now in a strange part of the country and more alone than he has ever been in his life, the author is in a desperate fight to survive. Desperate To Survive, is a powerful story with a lesson that can teach us how to avoid family disaster when making a will.

Gordon Baker was born and raised in Sudbury, Ontario, Canada. After graduating from college he worked for seven years in the electrical industry before turning to self-employment in 1982. A successful entrepreneur for many years before the events of this story transformed his life. Mr. Baker currently lives in Penticton, British Columbia. Daily recurring nightmares drove him to write this story and its almost-completed sequel, Desperate To Survive, Part 2, in hopes that they will serve as potent testaments and warnings to what can happen to any of us if we are not prepared.

Release date is early October 2005.
For further information contact
Deborah Greenspan at
Llumina Press,
Phone: 866-229-9244
email: dgreenspan@llumina.com
URL: www.llumina.com

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Author Contact Information
fortberryy@yahoo.ca 
 

Alternative Press Release

     The story begins when the sister steals her mother’s Will. Upon reading it, she discovers it’s not in her favor. As the days go by she becomes obsessed with the content, until a rage has built up inside of her. She then sets in motion a chain of events that in the end overwhelm her brother financially, physically and emotionally. With very little money left the brother can no longer afford a lawyer, he then looses the power of attorney, his mother granted him and he is unable to continue looking after his mother or her estate. The sister continues her assault until she has him evicted from the family home.

     The brother now finds himself physically weak, emotionally distraught and homeless. It is mid January 2004 and he only has his truck to live in just as one of the coldest winters in 20 years is taking hold. With no room he had to leave most of his belongings behind.

     For the next eight weeks he had to endure what can only be described as hell on earth as the winter temperatures plunged to minus 40 degrees. With hardly any heat, very little food, only snow for water and no way to wash himself or his clothes, the days became almost unbearable to the point where he considered ending his life more than once. He was not a religious man but during the darkest times he bowed his head and prayed. He prayed that he would not die without seeing his mother again. There was also a strong hatred growing inside of him, for he had eight weeks to curse his sister.

     When he was finally found by the police his condition was serious and his frame of mind was fragile. For the next few days he had to endure humiliation. When released from police custody he was taken to a shelter, where he felt very uncomfortable. It was here he befriended a man who told him he was on his way home to the Okanagan, in British Columbia and that there was plenty of work out there. Since finding a job was critical, the brother went across Canada with his new found friend.  The brother at this point gave no thought to the consequences and it turned out to be a fatal error. Within days of arriving out west he realized this fellow was a drug user and dealer. It was too late, for he became caught in the dark and dangerous world of drugs. 

     It took three months before the brother could finally escape from this dangerous world. He secured a job and believed the worst was now behind him.  However, there would still be a few more obstacles to overcome

     The ordeal this man went through has left him changed and scared forever. Everything he owned, his father’s possessions and some of his mothers that were to be inherited are gone. He is a long way from the home he knew, now in a strange part of the country and more alone than he has ever been in his life. There is only one thing that occupies his mind, to avenge what has been done to him.

 

 


 

 

 

Desperate To Survive
More Information

1) Read the SOS message I put on this website in December 2003 just before I became homeless.

 

How to stop a family war before it starts

      As the author of the book, Desperate to Survive, I barely survived the relentless attacks my sister made against my mother's estate and me. In fact, I am still in a struggle to regain some kind of a foothold to my life.
      I am no expert on how one can write Wills and Power of Attorneys to satisfy all  family members, as in many cases I don't think it's possible. However, if you want to stop a family feud from starting, then I can tell you how. It is the one ingredient that must be written into both documents and if done properly it will not only stop a feud from starting but it can be enforced to last the lifetime of your children.
     In my own case, if my mother had been made aware to have such a clause written into these documents, I would not be were I am today.  If you have a Will or a Power of Attorney, then you need to read this book and use the information in it, to avoid a potential disaster in your own family.


 

 

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